Why does he love us? or…does he still loves us?

Does he love us because he likes what he sees from the outside appearance in the beginning and does not really mind what you are like?

Does he love us because of certain values that he spots in us?

Does he want to get to know you with the objective to change you if we happen not to be someone as he expects us to be?

Does he love us because he needs us?...or does he need us because he loves us?
Why is it all turns out to be cool in the early stage of a relationship?

Toleration is to the very upscale. There isn’t any expectation of whatsoever from either party. All we want is the time to spend with each other. The love at this stage is so overwhelmed and so intense that he could forgo his own interest to fulfill ours. The most important to him is our happiness. The joy of ours is the joy of his.

Every single thing that we do, no matter how little or insignificant they are, it always matters to him. Every single word uttered from our luscious lips (luscious?...hmm...at least it used to be at that time…God knows if it still does now…), always means something to him. If we are not in a good state of mind or upset, he will soothe it off and makes us feel good again. What we feel matters so much to him. Every time we are out from home, he worries like hell to know if we reach our destination safely. Even what you have for breakfast and lunch remains part of his concern. The concern spreads throughout the day till we reach home safely at the end of the day. Talking nonsense on the line can be for hours and hours…there is always something to say or talk about. Messages (sms) follow through intermittently.

But all of these now remains once upon a time…

Why do you think? Where have all those beautiful episodes scrolled into? The tolerance level starts to diminish. The expectation from one another grows. Compromise is at stake. The willingness to share his thoughts has come to a halt. Communication persists only on the necessaries. He wants to be attended to, to be served at all times regardless of what we feel at that moment. At times, we wonder if he still loves us like he used to. Aren’t we a human with feelings too? Can we somehow now be allowed to even feel confused, disappointments, upset or even angry? Or we have to completely endorse him and forget about what we feel?

Over a period of time in a relationship, we tend to miss all the small little insignificant stuff we used to get his attention on in the early stage. The attention, of which sometimes we have gotten or been offered by other ‘fish in the sea’. No matter how much we kinda enjoy this attention, but deep down inside us we still wish that this was from him, and not from others.

The feeling that we have for him is so pure, fresh and intense like it used to be and will always be. Nothing beats that thus far. No matter how hurt we gets or disappointment we have been because of him, we had so far be the ‘chosen one’ to make the right options in life despite many challenges and ‘unruled pleasures’ lies ahead.   

We love him till the end…could he love us the same till death do us part?...

Friday, 11 June 2010